Smart Life Dumb Life

Hey! Bill here. I know how tough it is to figure out being in your 20s-30s. I’ve spent decades in pursuit of personal growth – learning as much as I could.

And now I’m sharing with you everything I wish I had known back then. With 26 years of marriage, two adult kids, and 50+ years of life, I want to give back. (You didn’t think I’d really share my exact age, did you?)
I’m cheering you on with unfiltered wisdom, a hefty dose of humor, and an unwavering belief in your ability to thrive.
Because let’s face it, we all make dumb decisions sometimes – but that doesn’t define us. It’s how we rebound that counts.
You’ll often hear me reference smart and dumb around here – and no, I’m not just throwing around buzzwords! They’re acronyms that make up the core of what Smart Life Dumb Life stands for.

According to the good folks at Oxford who spend their time gathering, researching and defining the meaning of words (something I appreciate….) “smart” is an adjective, meaning it describes something. In this case, the ‘something’ is you. It describes you. You’re the subject of everything we do here at SMARTLife, you’re the whole point! 

We’re here to help you work through the topics and questions presented, and hopefully move toward a SMART Life and away from DUMB choices. So what do we mean by that? 

Back to Oxford, “smart” is defined as “having or showing quick-witted intelligence.” 

The folks at Cambridge, not to be outdone, add a helpful line: “intelligent, or able to think quickly or intelligently in difficult situations.” 

“Able to think quickly or intelligently in difficult situations” that’s the working definition of smart in the context of SMARTLife.

The second definition provided is: “(of a device) programmed so as to be capable of some independent action.” OK, I know “of a device” is a reference to gadgets and machines like “smart phones”, “smart tvs”, smart whatever devices we see around us. But the brain is also a wonderful ‘machine’ and can be ‘programmed’ in a multitude of ways. One way we describe this is “perspective”. We have a default perspective, mostly without realizing it. It’s just the “way we see things” or “what this means to me.” 

Another amazing thing about our brain is the ability to analyze, compare, to reflect. And further still, more amazingly we can use this ability to analyze, reflect and compare the perspective we have with other perspectives which we discover. The discovery can come many ways, but ultimately we can become aware of an alternate perspective through reflection, trial and error, listening or reading about the experience of others. Exercising this rational ability to compare, evaluate and learn from the experience of others is also part of what we mean by “SMART”. No need to repeat mistakes and take the long way around for every experience in life. That’s the “programmed to be capable of independent action” part. SMARTLife is an attempt to offer some input for you to consider in becoming capable of your own actions. I also like to refer to this as your power of choice. Whoever does whatever, whenever, for who knows why – you always have your power of choice. You are capable of “thinking intelligently in difficult situations.” You can always make a SMART choice!

I’ll be the first to admit, “dumb” could be a little harsh, yes. Especially if you are used to hearing it said in reference to you as a person. Or about your ability. As a reference to your worth or value. But, here’s the thing. DUMB here only means one thing, and it’s for sure not YOU. DUMB, as an acronym for each topic, is only meant to describe choices which are not the best options for you to choose. DUMB is always in the context of a choice, or a consequence of a choice. Never as a reference to a person’s capability, intelligence, value, or worth. 

Please read the “What Do We Mean by SMART” section to see that our goal is to encourage, educate and elevate you, never to put you down. Even if you can relate to a poor choice in the DUMB section of a topic – there’s still good news! You can compare that with the SMART options provided and make a choice between the two. So please don’t think of “DUMB” as stupid, worthless, hopeless or stuck. As you read on, you’ll discover it doesn’t mean any of these things, just the opposite. We’re here to learn from other’s mistakes – mostly mine – and that’s a SMART thing to do!

So hopefully you will learn something from the SMART ideas and recommendations, and take advantage of the DUMB descriptions, while having some fun in the process!

We use all caps for SMART and DUMB because it’s an acronym for the ideas in each topic. Just pick a topic to read and you’ll figure it out!

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